Tonight my friend Lisa is offering us, as a dVerse Poets Prosery Prompt, a line from Alice Walker’s poem ‘Before you knew you owned it’. The line for us to incorporate, unchanged apart from punctuation, is ‘make of it a parka for your soul’.
By way of synchronicity the dVerse prompt followed closely an email from a dear niece, who is undergoing key-hole surgery on Thursday.
So my Prosery became a letter to (my) Alice, and checked in at 144 words. Just what the doctor ordered!
Dear Alice
I read with warmth your second email, followed by another from dVerse Poets from whom writing prompts emanate.
(Tonight's Prosery Prompt from another Alice: Walker, whose 'Color Purple' is well known.)
Niece Alice, I'm looking at a beautiful carved-and-turned pelvis-shaped wooden bowl I bought in Criccieth, mid-Wales. Soon before your marriage to Mark, and nearly donated for that.
Instead I sent you a token for household items, and parked the bowl in my then-shrine-corner, filled with beautiful pebbles and topped with a woven willow trefoil.
All these years later, and on the eve of your womb operation, I discern that your womanly abdomen speaks to my crone's hip-bowl.
I want to pass the totem of capacity, spaciousness and grace on to you, for whatever you want to make of it. A parka for your soul, to hold you gently as you heal...
© Kathy Labrum McVittie 17 February 2025

Kathy, I see the synchronicity here. Your love for your niece, Alice, emanates (your word) so warmly from your letter. Please tell me you are sending this letter to her. She will always cherish your-her pelvis shaped bowl ❤
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Indeed I will send Alice a link to this post, to read when she gets home from hospital – and then I’ll send the bowl. Gladly!
I have to polish it and fill it with dried rosebuds and love. I’m only ten years older than Alice; closer in age than I was to her mum, my sorely missed sister Carole about whom we share stories over Zoom, and about whom I’ve written elsewhere.
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Kathy, I would love to see a pic of the bowl when it’s ready to go. Not sure if it’s possible but if it is… Alice is blessed to have you in her life and vice versa. It must feel like a part of Carole is still here, manifest through her.
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Dear Lisa, I’ll try to remember to do that – it was only from weariness tonight that I did’t go through all my picture files to find that image… so used a sculpture from outside my sister’s community library instead – a “reading bowl of concentration”
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Ah! I wondered about the sculpture outside of the library.
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A beautiful and heartfelt letter! I love what you did with this prompt.
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Thank you Dwight.
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A lovely, lovely letter!
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I was so glad to be prompted to send it!
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What a wonderful way to use the prose for real… a letter is a good way to use the quote I found too.
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Yes I loved your – very different – epistolary response, Bjorn!
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I would have loved a letter like this when I had my hysterectomy all those years go, Kathy, and a crone’s hip bowl. And what a timely coincidence that the prompt lines are from a poem by Alice Walker. I enjoy epistolary and your Prosery piece cheered me up this morning.
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I’m so glad you enjoyed this, Kim. I’ve not been writing to many dVerse prompts recently – too much Life going on here – but this was simply irresistible!
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I have a Poetics prompt coming up on 25th February which you might enjoy.
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Goody, I’ll look out for that; I do like yours!
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I exclaimed aloud at the close of your lovely letter. You have woven in so much about the passages in a woman’s life, and the connection and support between women across generations. Your letter is indeed a parka for the soul, a quilt of warmth and regard, sewn together with wisdom.
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Kim, I am moved by what you say and I thank you for saying it. There is big history in our family (perhaps in most families) of women’s tricky transitions. The repercussions of misunderstanding and disappointment echo on through generations, and it is a blessing when we have the opportunity to reach out as soul-siblings and affirm our essential kinship.
My niece Alice was partiularly brave in coming forward to support me after my mastectomy (2022), when we shared (over Zoom) lingering griefs around the death from cancer of her mum, my eldest sister, in 1977, thus reviving a closeness thay Alice and I enjoyed when she was a youngster and I was in my teens, over five decades ago.
Theere’s some really special soul healing going on for me, an unexpected bonus at this crone-time!
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Kathy, this is beautifully tender. The way you weave synchronicity and symbolism, especially with the pelvis-shaped bowl, is moving.
Much love,
David
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Thank you David. I’ll try to add a photo of the bowl before I send it to Alice
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Kim, I am moved by what you say and I thank you for saying it. There is big history in our family (perhaps in most families) of women’s tricky transitions. The repercussions of misunderstanding and disappointment echo on through generations, and it is a blessing when we have the opportunity to reach out as soul-siblings and affirm our essential kinship.
My niece Alice was partiularly brave in coming forward to support me after my mastectomy (2022), when we shared (over Zoom) lingering griefs around the death from cancer of her mum, my eldest sister, in 1977, thus reviving a closeness thay Alice and I enjoyed when she was a youngster and I was in my teens, over five decades ago.
Theere’s some really special soul healing going on for me, an unexpected bonus at this crone-time!
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Astonishingly beautiful.
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Thank you Elaine, I’m touched. There’s more of the background story of family foibles in the generous comments that others have been posting, and here
https://writingpresence.com/2018/06/12/poem-no-mother-should-have-to-bury-her-daughter/
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awww, this was precious! speedy healing to your neice.
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Thank you! She’s going into this with a lot of folk cheering for her.
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So much love in that letter, Kathy! Great piece!
Yvette M Calleiro 🙂
http://yvettemcalleiro.blogspot.com
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Thank you Yvette. She’s coming through well.
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